Chapter 20, Part 2: Men, Women, and Soulmates
Video: Chapter 20, Part 2 (pages 304-312; words & audio)
Give and Take
Men and women, once One, are very different when separated into their polarities, and the lower the person's consciousness, the greater the difference will be, and the greater the lack of harmony.
There are certain qualities that are generally associated with men & women, as generalities only. A few of the qualities that are associated with the female, negatively charged, receptive side, are: emotional sensitivity, passivity, mutability, adaptability, and being more intuitively oriented than logically based. Qualities that generally are contributed to the male/outflowing side, are: emotional insensitivity/suppression, aggressiveness, being dominating, being more fixed, and logically oriented rather than intuitively based.
As males & females grow in consciousness, they thus get closer to becoming One again, and all the stereotypical male/female qualities begin to merge until you are a complete balanced being. Thus, a higher consciousness male will have more emotional sensitivity, intuitive ability, etc., and a higher consciousness female will also have more dynamic capabilities, and logic, etc.
Back to the Fall
When we are functioning as whole angelic beings, the one being's female elements are on the perimeter, our "outside" so to speak, and the male elements on the "inside", just like planets are on the "outside", or perimeter areas of a solar system, or electrons outside the nucleus of an atom. That's why "Eve" went first, so to speak.
It was us as a whole angelic being who "fell" into separation - not women only. It is not women that caused men to fall, it was just the first element of us to experience the temptations of the new plane, and the first part of us to separate and become lost.
Adam, the First Return
The ancient manuscripts reveal that the "Adam" referred to in the bible, was actually an Atlantean. This same entity who, in one of his later Atlantean incarnations was master Thoth, the grand master of the Children of the Law of One. This was also the same entity who was later known as many others, including Jesus {Yeshua in Hebrew}. Not only was he the first human male being of the 2nd wave, to separate from the Universal Spirit, he was also the first to return to Oneness. And because he was the first to return to Oneness, he was of the highest consciousness. This also made him the best guide to others trying to achieve what he had already achieved.
When he returned to Oneness, he rejoined his connection, his link to God. And in doing so, and becoming thus enlightened, he made it possible for his higher consciousness female soul-mates to join him in this return also. Otherwise, if he was still separate, still lost, still selfish, they would have had to bypass him if they chose to return to Oneness. This is a very important point, and how he made it possible is where the story of Adam & Eve intersects with, and becomes quite relevant to, "The Spiritual Path".
In the Right Order, Polarities Vanish to become One Flow
In order for everything to function as One harmonious thing, it also requires all the polarities to be in the right order. This is because the "flow" of the circle of Universal energy moves in only one direction.
Putting the Batteries in the Wrong Way
What most women think men are is not what they really are - at least it's not what they are meant to be. An average "normal" man is polarity reversed - they "suck" energy rather than giving it. A "real" man is One with the Universal Spirit, and radiates - and while they still have the masculine qualities, they have a very different nature than what most women have come to expect. A REAL MAN - A "SPIRITUAL" MAN, IS IN CONTROL OF HIS SELF, AND HIS STRENGTH IS NOT "MACHO FORCE", BUT RATHER IT IS THE STRENGTH OF THE UNIVERSAL SPIRIT THAT PERMEATES HIM & FLOWS THROUGH HIM FROM DEEP INSIDE. He does not dominate women & his environment by force, and selfishness. He radiates the light of God within him, and that automatically influences his environment with the strongest force there is - Unselfish Love.
A woman who wants an Unselfishly Loving man, must eventually become Unselfishly Loving also.
So we live in a world full of polarity mixed-up, selfish men & women. Of course, it all makes for one big mess! Can you imagine the chaos in the Universe if the stars & planets behaved this way? Can you imagine what would happen if the planets tried to "lure" the Sun, and the Sun broke out of its orbit & began chasing after planets? It would cause a chain reaction of disaster and chaos all over the Universe. The polarities must take their proper places, or discord will never end.
Problems with Partners of Different Consciousness Levels
When soulmates get back together because of Karma, rather than because they have both evolved & become more loving, higher consciousness beings, the sparks of conflict can really fly. But even though this is often an intense and very upsetting type of relationship, it can sometimes be a good scenario for growth. But often such underdeveloped soulmates can't take the heat of the relationship, and will break up with worse Karma between them than they had before.
If partners who find themselves in a soulmate relationship are at similar levels of consciousness, but not really the same level, they can either grow together or keep each other down. But if one partner is of a higher state, or growing faster, they may need to separate if the other partner refuses to catch up or keep pace.
A PREREQUISITE OF THE PATH: Just as "Eve" left & "Adam" followed, to get back, Adam must return first, then Eve will have the opportunity to go with him also.
Fortunately, Universal Law provides a solution in cases where Adam does not return first, Eve can find another "Adam" if she wishes to.
Unfortunately for the men, the burden is on the men to surrender to the Universal Spirit first, before their soulmates, or they leave no viable alternative to their female counterparts. This is not as bad as it may sound though, for at those levels of consciousness, we achieve the primary perfect male & female archetype again, and it is just as totally satisfying & comfortable for the female to be with the new soulmate, as the old - as long as the old soulmate has not achieved enlightenment, and is being rejected.
Real Romance - Reuniting with your Soulmate
For soulmates to harmoniously reunite, it requires both the male & female elements to truly "want God" so to speak - to be receptive to the Universal Spirit & Universal Will.
The male soulmate must be the first to change his polarity, and become receptive to the Universal... This allows him to be able to wait for his soulmate to appear in his life, and to become the soulmate of a woman who has no hope of retrieving her original soulmate - either because he has gone on to higher planes already, or because her original soulmate is of lower consciousness.
If a woman has realized she must return to the Universal Spirit, and her soulmate has not, she may "jump" soul-groups & find another male who she has an affinity with, and who is appropriately spiritually oriented. This new male will become her new soulmate. The new soulmate is just as valid as the original and there is just as much love.
It is only the female who is allowed to "choose" who to attach to - when polarities are functioning in their proper order, in harmony with the Universal flow. Just as the planets choose what Sun they will orbit. Also, in the case of a woman whose original soulmate has already gone on, she can choose a new soulmate. But in both cases, a man or woman may rejoin their original soulmates after leaving the Earth plane, although it is unlikely to happen, because usually by that time, it isn't desired anymore because they are just as harmonious & "happy" with their new soulmate situation.
When soulmates join in higher consciousness, it is a time to rejoice. It is also a beautiful thing to behold, for it changes & expands the nature of their whole beingness together... the sum of this union is greater than just the total of the two. Thus, aspects of a "new being" are created. The soulmate elements function together as one - a psychically bonded team working toward the same goal.
One final thing to think about - we can have more than one original soulmate. Contemplate it. Think about why.
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